I have never driven a car in my life. I grew up in NYC and after 10 months of living in Los Angeles I decided that it was finally time. I scheduled an appointment for 4:00-6:00pm with I believe someon... Read More
I have never driven a car in my life. I grew up in NYC and after 10 months of living in Los Angeles I decided that it was finally time. I scheduled an appointment for 4:00-6:00pm with I believe someone named Mar over the phone. She told me I'd be picked up at my home and could give a check to the instructor for payment.At 3:21 on the day of my first lesson, I received a phone call requesting that I start my driving lesson at 3:30 instead of 4:00. This irked me but I was just relaxing at home so agreed. I meet Soren who is immediately extremely patronizing. Soren utilizes a dual brake car which was some relief. I discovered also that he had an appointment at 5:30 with another student. I was confused about this since I had scheduled my appointment for 4:00-6:00pm. Apparently there is some lapse in communication in terms of scheduling. Soren is very brusque, does not explain things clearly (his instructions are limited to, "GO!", "More gas," "Less gas" and "Listen to me!") As someone who has literally NEVER, EVER driven a car in her life (which I made extremely clear), he did little to make me feel relaxed or comfortable. He berated me the entire time with comments such as, "You drive like a 15 year old," "Don't you see my job is so dangerous with drivers like you?" and "You do not listen to me!" He would give one instruction "More gas!" immediately followed with "Take your foot off the gas!" then would get frustrated when I took a second to respond. I understand driving is extremely difficult to teach as much of it is intuitive, but basically putting me in a car, telling me to go, assuming I know how everything is going to react to this or that amount of pressure, and then yelling at me when I DON'T know is not helpful. I spent almost the entirety of the the lesson apologizing to Soren and trying to hold back tears.The worst part came when I did not know that one had to entirely release pressure from the gas pedal during a turn AS HE DID NOT INFORM ME PRIOR. I did this which resulted in the car moving very quickly. He yelled at me to take my foot of the gas, which I did, but then he proceeded WHILE MY FOOT WAS OFF THE GAS PEDAL, TO SWAT MY LEG AS ONLOOKERS WATCHED. I was completely humiliated. I would like to reiterate that this was a dual brake car and he had absolutely no reason to touch me in the first place, but especially not after I had already taken my foot off the pedal. This was not the only time he swatted me -- at another point (in which we were in a completely pulled over, safe position with the brakes on) I could not maneuver the hand brake because I have literally never touched one before in my life. He swatted my hand away. Later, we went to pick up his 5:30 student -- a male. Soren was much calmer and patient with him which I can't help but feel like Soren's verbal and physical abuse of me was partially related to a most likely sexist view of his female students/drivers.At the end Soren said to me, "It won't be so bad next time." It should not have been bad in the first place. I felt completely dejected after my lesson and like I would never learn to drive. I hope that I can find a driving school with calmer, more patient teachers the next time. Read Less